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Humanoid-Fangirl's avatarVona@Humanoid-Fangirl06/10/2023

I just need to vent

Im sorry for thping it here but i have noone i can tell about this and its just eating me alive.

-Today i was chilling and playing valorant, my ex randomly texted me and started attacking me, i tried to remind him what kind of person he is(he cheated on me) and he pulled up "at least i didn't tried to kms when i was 13", "atleast i wasn't in psych ward when i was 14" and this kind of 🤬🤬🤬🤬, this guy is 19 and i just don't know what to do, this just ruined me and i feel really bad :( I just don't know how to deal with him i tried to block him everywhere but he wont stop.

(i really made it shorter than it was).

  ~thank you for hearing me out ♡
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Dr1zVCT Champions 2022@Dr1z• 09/10/2023
Loading...We here for u If u need advice or support
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Vona@Humanoid-Fangirl• 09/10/2023
Loading...@Dr1z Thank you 💖💖
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wackU@wackU• 08/10/2023
Loading...This is soooo sad, trust me, stay strong and everything will be alright! 🫶🏻🫶🏻
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Vona@Humanoid-Fangirl• 08/10/2023
Loading...@Keniwann Thank you so much, i appreciate it, i really do ♥︎♥︎
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Keniwann@Keniwann• 07/10/2023
Loading...It’s sad what he is doing. I think the community listens to you.. You deserve better stay strong🧡🖤
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AlanXO@AlanXO• 07/10/2023
Loading...Everyone had some though experiences in his past, but its nothing to be ashamed of, it was all part of who you are now, these experiences you had will only make you stronger, dont let him bring you down. You went through a lot and managed to heal, you are already on the right path, you just need the right people around you and he is not one of them. Bringing up sensetive topics in an argument is a red flag, do not just block him, but make it clear to him that you two will split up, and even though you may feel lonely for some time and he may try to contact you again, its better to cut him off. Just know that its better than being accompanied by the wrong people. I hope you find the one who cares and appreciates every little thing about you and good luck in your life!
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Vona@Humanoid-Fangirl• 07/10/2023
Loading...@AlanXO thank you so much ♡ Hoenstly your comment really does make me feel better and i really do appreciate it. Thank you
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FNC Remo@FnaticRemo• 07/10/2023
Loading...Sometimes it helps to talk about with a random person who just listen to u. Hope you will recover fast and if U just want to play games and need someone to listen to u. You can legit hit me up if you want. Don't get too stressed about it.
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FrankyCow Paulo@Franky• 07/10/2023
Loading...@Humanoid-Fangirl You probably have groups of adults around you who are or have been in the same situation and can help you; it's important that you don't remain alone
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FrankyCow Paulo@Franky• 07/10/2023
Loading...Well, I assume you are a minor, so I can only advise you to talk to trusted adults about the situation and have them accompany you to the police since he is legally an adult, you should at least consider filing a formal complaint.
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FrankyCow Paulo@Franky• 07/10/2023
Loading...@Franky Try to see if there are any local organizations in your area that deal with abusive relationships, as they may be able to provide you with better assistance, both in terms of support and guidance on what to do.
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Vona@Humanoid-Fangirl• 07/10/2023
Loading...@Franky sadly im not a minor and i dont have any adult which is close to me))
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Ruka@Rukafps• 07/10/2023
Loading...It's sad what he is doing probably he is need to go to the psychiatrist idk in English hahhaha but you are better than him
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Vona@Humanoid-Fangirl• 07/10/2023
Loading...@Rukafps Thank you ♡♡I appreciate u so much.
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Vona@Humanoid-Fangirl• 06/10/2023
Loading...I just can't understand why he has the urge to hurt me, he ruined me already and he knows it, why does he need to continue:(